From Struggling to Sticking: The Habit That Changes Everything

Tired of starting habits that never last? You’re not failing—the approach is. In Episode 5 of the Unfinished Leadership Podcast, we discuss the simple shift that makes habits finally stick: focusing on identity, not effort.

Instead of asking “What do I need to do?”, ask “Who do I want to become?” When your habits align with your identity, they stop feeling like chores and start becoming natural.

Here’s how to put it into play:

• Name the gap – Be honest about where you’re falling short.

• Go tiny – Choose one ridiculously small action you can repeat daily.

• Shift the story – Say “I’m the kind of leader who follows through” instead of “I’m trying to build a habit.”

• Celebrate consistency – Progress isn’t about perfection, it’s about showing up.

Small, identity-driven habits compound over time. That’s how you go from struggling to sticking—and from wishing to becoming.

Stay Ready,

Jon